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By: CHCH 064
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2025-05-27 10:03:39 |
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Everyone enjoyed and appreciated the issues covered. Didn't read the provided questions although the notes very well-written. |
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By: WINT 001
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2024-07-25 16:16:34 |
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We thought the group would love this book but only 2 of us really enjoyed it, thinking there was humour in the writing. The rest didn't enjoy it saying it was too close to the bone and gave up reading it early on. The discussion took a long time as people told their own experiences with relatives and loved ones having been in care. It was interesting to compare this sort of home with over 2,000 residents, to local ones and interesting to see the "problems" of caring for the increasingly aged population is similar in other countries. |
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By: TAUR 062
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2023-07-06 12:40:32 |
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Very mixed response to this book, too close to home for some, and hard to get into for others. Thought provoking. We had great discussion around this book due to the many topics covered. Some of us found it very funny. |
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By: WAIPUK 001
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2022-08-22 14:39:17 |
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This book was enjoyed by all, some more than others! The questions made for lively discussion as members of our group are all "old", bar one. We enjoyed his sense of humour and determination to keep living. |
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By: NAP 005
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2022-03-17 17:48:41 |
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Most of the group read and enjoyed this book though there were a few dissenting voices e.g. finding it depressing. One reader's first impression wasn't high but, by the end, had thoroughly changed their mind. A very good translation and readers noticed use of colloquialisms appropriate for a 83 year old. The year long diary shows humour, frustration, tenderness, sadness etc. and gave rise to thoughts on ageing and care of the aged. |
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By: MAST 004
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2022-03-02 13:17:07 |
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A riveting yarn. Bittersweet. |
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By: TAKA 001
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2021-06-15 09:40:05 |
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Several people felt that the diary format did not work for them, and felt it was boring at times. Others liked that format. The issues addressed seem universal for people in rest homes. There was humor, sadness and tenderness in the book. Many people admired Grietje's ability to face into her dementia. The discussion went far and wide about care for the elderly and the need to be prepared. |
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By: ONAWE 001
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2020-06-22 18:23:53 |
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2 members only (out of 11 who read the book) really enjoyed it. The remainder of the group found it too long, repetitive & boring. Even though it was a light read those who did persist to the end took the whole month to read it. It seemed that those of us over 70 years of age, perhaps felt that it was a bit close to home but of course when we realised that it wasnt an actual diary but a work of fiction by a 61 year old, we felt that it was demeaning to many elderly over 80 years old, who are out in the community living a full and energetic life independently of any retirement home. |
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By: PUTAR 001
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2020-03-09 13:48:46 |
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Most enjoyed. Chortled at some points, sad at others. Reality check for old age. |
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By: DOUBT 001
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2020-02-24 12:51:55 |
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Both funny and sad. Good discussion point about much needed improvement for the aged in care. |
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By: CHCH 320
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2019-11-13 12:33:06 |
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We were quite split after reading the 'Diary'. Some found it cleverly written, thought-provoking, enjoyable, and cherished the mischief-making of the main protagonists. The book was undoubtedly well-researched and we gained insights about the elderly in residential care. Some found the book repetitive (in fact, no fewer than four men used that word in their summation), too long, slow, and bemoaned a sameness of tone. So we had a divided room, and as one of our cohort wisely said, "the jury is still out". |
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By: HAVE 005
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2019-11-13 12:26:51 |
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At least half of our group didn't finish the book as they found it a bit repetitive. Those of us who had read it all thought that the characters, especially that of the narrator, developed during the book and were very engaging. None of us would read a sequel. |
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By: CHCH 125
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2019-11-13 12:24:03 |
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Mostly enjoyed by the group - a couple of members still reading it - one gave up and hated it after the cake in the aquarium! Stimulated lots of discussion about our future care plans and choices - or lack of! |
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By: NELS 002
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2019-10-09 14:24:21 |
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Most enjoyable reading doesn't always mean the best discussion. |
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By: AUCK 209
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2019-10-09 14:23:28 |
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This delightful book had all the right ingredients. It was full of humour and tragedy, and it was written to make you want to keep reading long after the lights should go out! |
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