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3.5 

Title: Should We Stay or Should We Go
Authors: Shriver, Lionel
Genre: Fiction
Pages: 266
Year: 2021
Language: English
Description: The pact that Kay and Cyril Wilkinson make to lead their best lives and then end it all/commit suicide when they turn eighty and eighty-one respectively, always seemed so sensible and Kay's 80th birthday a long way off. But now it's 2020, the time is nigh and they are faced with the dilemma: should we stay or should we go?

Presented through twelve thoughtful and entertaining scenarios, readers accompany Kay and Cyril through these alternate futures all woven through with the familiar challenges of contemporary living, whether it be coronavirus or climate change. [Small-medium font]

Categories: Fiction, Dystopia/Futuristic, Grief/loss, Social commentary/perspectives, UK, Small font, 2023 Titles

Reviews

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By: WHAKA 019 2025-03-26 13:15:50
2 
Perhaps a step too far for some readers to enjoy.

By: GOVER 005 2024-10-25 22:58:10
2.5 
Agree with previous reviews. Not all of us could be bothered to finish it. Those that did felt it did improve. The first chapter put a lot of us off with none of the characters being likeable or believable. However some interesting discussion about aging and choices and reconciliation of both.

By: CROMW 003 2024-10-16 11:43:41
3.5 
Mixed reactions. Good discussions. We all thought it would make a good T.V. series. Not too serious?

By: AUCK 107 2024-10-03 12:01:06
4 
All the group found this book hard to get into in the beginning. Once we reached the 3rd or 4th chapters, it was a fun read, although found the later chapters a bit far fetched, even though it was funny. Raised some very interesting issues regarding end-of-life decisions.

By: BLENH 010 2024-09-11 17:35:47
4 
A lively discussion. 4 of our group are over 80 which created an interesting scenario! All enjoyed the book and Lionel Shriver's imagination.

By: HAMIL 029 2024-08-05 11:40:23
3.5 
Quite a mixed reaction to this book. Some found it interesting and liked Shriver's ironic, witty style and satire. Others found it too dark, especially a recently bereaved member of the group. Some did not enjoy the structure of the book, though others loved the very entertaining variations on a theme. Not exactly an enticing view of old age!

By: BLENH 010 2024-07-18 11:43:21
4 
A lively discussion. 4 of our group are over 80 which created an interesting scenario! All enjoyed the book and Lionel Shriver's imagination.

By: RIVER 001 2024-05-01 13:53:15
3 
Some members found it confronting, others felt some of the scenarios not realistic, but it did give rise to a lot of discussion.

By: OAMAR 002 2024-02-26 10:01:51
4.5 
Thought provoking book that initiated great discussion.

By: WELL 017 2024-01-17 11:26:28
4.5 
People enjoyed this book even though some of the scenarios were quite grim. Resulted in a very good discussion. I would not describe this book as 'hilarious' though. The front cover is misleading.

By: MARTIN 001 2024-01-11 10:37:15
4 
Everyone got a lot out of this book. Clever concept about ageing. Some great descriptions of care for the elderly. Some thought the author was using the book to push her own politics.

By: DUNED 015 2023-11-08 14:57:08
3 
Mixed responses; most could not warm to the characters - felt they were not drawn well enough to care about.

By: NEWP 001 2023-11-01 13:33:54
4 
Stimulated lots of discussion. Didn't need the printed questions.

By: QUEEN 015 2023-10-18 12:42:05
3.5 
A bit of a mixed response from our group. Some found it a bit triggering or just didn't enjoy - others loved it, finding it thoughtful and humorous. If you enjoy other Lionel Shriver books, then this is a definite must read.

By: OHOPE 001 2023-10-02 12:47:10
2.5 
Well written - but became unrealistic and tedious.

By: PALMN 013 2023-09-13 12:29:17
4 
A robust discussion of this book!

By: CHCH 544 2023-08-09 20:42:34
3 
Lionel Shriver is a polarizer! Most people didn't finish reading the book. Even the finishers found it depressing. A couple of people acknowledged that it made them think though, and that it was a different kind of book from those they would normally choose.

By: AUCK 443 2023-07-24 14:49:34
3.5 
A very different book for our group, two didn't complete it - but we did have a thoughtful discussion on the topic of how to regard living in older age. Three of our members are mid-80s and 94 - all very sharp minded and physically fine.

By: GOVER 003 2023-07-19 10:05:35
2 
None of our group rated this book highly, although it did generate good discussion, and made us realise we should have documented arrangements ( as in Question 8),if we haven't already done it. We thought the author was out to shock us, but a lot of it was repetitive and far-fetched, and we didn't think much of Cyril and his opinions on life, and the NHS.

By: DUNED 100 2023-07-12 11:18:05
3 
Most members of our group found this book challenging and annoying. But it did spark a lively discussion.

By: HAMIL 018 2023-03-22 10:21:11
3.5 
Wow - what a diversity of thoughts and opinions. Some found the whole thing depressing, far fetched and uncomfortable - disliked it a lot. 2 of us thought it interesting, thought provoking, sometimes funny and quite insightful. The rest refused to read it after about 80 pages. Definitely a lot of discussion!

By: KATIK 005 2022-09-15 14:06:03
3.5 
An original story exploring possible outcomes and solutions to ageing. Not everyone in the group felt comfortable with some of the solutions or possibly the whole ageing conversation. Comments included: the black box seemed sinister and overbearing; the idea of a TV series appealed but with a N.Z. focus that explored the loss of personal agency, financial choices, health etc. The book notes were comprehensive, focusing our attention on the themes in Shriver's novel.

By: AUCK 385 2022-06-30 11:21:26
3.5 
Mixed reviews - but it certainly sparked a lot of discussion around age and euthanasia, so led to a very good meeting.

 
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